I’ve been reading throug so many different articles on how to get your ex back that I was wondering if  the immense levels of low self-esteem, which I’ve been observing lately are responsible for some unhappy relationships out there. This isn’t about pride, but about common sense and proverbial forgiveness – the type that really counts. So if you are still undecided, here are some great reasons to keep him or her in the ‘ex-files’.

1. A broken link in the universe is a sign that things or people don’t belong together; fixing it always leaves scars, even if you tried to hide those or ‘cope’ with them.

2. In this context, no matter how many therapies you attend, your memory (not your money) will always have the last words. “It happened”.

3. It would be a step backwards. You would be denying yourself a chance to grow, meet new people, feel new emotions and maybe be happier.

4. The only person, who could ever break that relationship (one of you two) already did, so ask yourself the right question; it is never why but what for?

5. You would have communication problems. Even when you ‘hide’ concerns they still exist. Do you want that kind of mental punishment?

6. You wouldn’t do it for love, but perhaps because you need to fill in a gap in your life. Love (for yourself) would be to accept the facts.

7. There are only two biological sex genders, but more than 60% of over 6 billion people in the world are adults; how unlucky can you be?

8. An ‘ex’ (anything) implies that the experience belongs to the past. So you should contemplate your present and look into your future.

9. You would still wonder about ‘what if’ – for as long as the reconciliation lasts – making room for potential resentment.

10. If you broke up again, you would regret wasting precious time. And who in this life has enough of it for regrets, let alone to waste any?

So, my friend. MOVE ON 🙂